Haven’t we all grown up hearing about true love? If there IS such a thing, then why do so many couples who profess their undying love ’til death do us part, end up in divorce court hating each other?
Being an lifelong student of personal growth and development, I’ve come to believe that whatever we focus on … with feeling we draw more of whatever it is into our lives. Could it be that before the zillion dollar wedding, the couple is focusing on all the good things they see in their prospective spouse, but after the nuptials, those little “quirks” that seemed so endearing before the wedding turn into daily irritants?
Perhaps if we could learn to love in the same way after the big day as we did before, we’d see less people in Divorce Court … just sayin’.